The Christian life is about a Spiritual marriage with Heaven which connects us to holiness with God. In the book of Genesis, the first book of the Bible, the MARRIAGE that God created from the beginning was between one man and one woman as they live. This is a marriage of His, Holy Spirit. All other marriages and multiple marriages we witness in society have been created by society. God will bless His children with all promises if they remain committed to their Spiritual vows in Him.
There is not a price that can be put on remaining in a holy matrimony. Sin will occur in marriage, which makes the marriage bed defiled but remaining committed to spiritual vows, taken from the beginning, makes for a holy matrimony. And that which proceeds out of a man’s mouth, comes from his heart and that also defiles that man (Matthew 15: 17).
Having said this, there are Christian in-laws who are disrespectful of their child’s marriage, which puts those Christian in-Laws out of Oneness with God’s perfect will. God’s perfect Will [His Spirit] is for us to love unconditionally, a demand of the Law. It’s unfortunate that there are too many Christian-in-Laws who intentionally disappoint the Father and His Son. These Christian-in-laws are not what the Law demands. They are double-minded in-Laws, The Doublins, who are unstable in all their ways (Book of James 1:8, 4:8). Instead of Christian allies they become advocates for Satan.
The Doublins are intrusive and uninviting. They are filled with WICKED obsession and undaunted boldness because their child’s spouse does not fit their standards. The Doublins want to be and/or appear to be upright citizens of the universe, yet at the same time they are shrewdly evil when events go against their personal expectation of their child’s spouse. The Doublins are miserable and they have many sleepless nights because of their child’s marriage to a spouse they hate. They want their child’s spouse to feel their pain. However, Christian couples must remain committed to their marriage in God in order to withstand the Doublins’ brutal onslaught [which is certain to come].
God expects Christian couples to fulfill their marriage vows in Christ, which is sealed unto death…do you part. Christian-in-Laws should come to an understanding of what being [living as] an IN-LAW means in order for THEM to fulfill THEIR Spiritual vows as believers in Christ…their New Covenant. What are those Spiritual vows? They are that Christians confessed Christ to be their Lord and Saviour, believing that He was raised from the dead (sinners and the grave), and that He can raise us unto His Salvation (Romans 10). A mother-in-Law, a father-in-Law, or any in-Law, is one who lives in Christ. Living in Christ means you are living in the Law. And Who is that Law? It is Christ, for Christ states in Scripture that He came to fulfill the Law. If Christ came to fulfill the Law, and He did so, then the Law lives in Christ. Therefore, all those who profess that they believe in Christ, will live [be] in the Law, as in In-Laws. If Christ is love, THEN IN LAW, In-Laws, you are to love your child’s spouse unconditionally as Christ loves her. As many of you have, sometime a child will join himself to the wrong wife and she has joined to the wrong husband.
Whether the marriage is of God’s Will or not, reviling Christian-in-Laws, especially mother-in-Law, will constantly seek a reason to be a thorn in their child’s despised marriage. With so much confusion and strife from baneful Christian-in-laws, Christian couples may not be able to focus on God’s will in their marriage as they should. The unyielding goal of vindictive Christian-in-Laws is to convince their child that they married the wrong person. But guess what, Christian-in-Laws, your child will know in her spirit if she married the wrong man and you have refused to offer your blessings. Not only will her spirit be in constant turmoil throughout the marriage but she has to contend with the turmoil from in-Laws as well. Christian-in-Laws are to be of a peaceful nature because her commitment to him and his to her, in the presence of God has been sealed unto death. If it is their first living marriage, it is still holy for it is undefiled. To The Doublins, do not be a part of causing the newlyweds to become filled with hatred. It is not your marriage to like nor is it a DEMAND of the Law that you act in this way for the Law is filled with many commandments and your spirited behavior is not one of the commandments. Know that God is not interested in whether or not you like the marriage. God looks at the heart of His creatures to see what we truly love. Doublins! do not truly love evil. You are commanded to repent. Woe unto you, O’ wicked ones.
